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Titus 2:1-10
'But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine. Older men are to be sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness. Older women likewise are to be reverent in behaviour, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled. Likewise, urge the younger men to be self-controlled. Show yourself in all respects to be a model of good works, and in your teaching show integrity, dignity, and sound speech that cannot be condemned, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say about us. Bondservants are to be submissive to their own masters in everything; they are to be well-pleasing, not argumentative, not pilfering, but showing all good faith, so that in everything they may adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour.'
The Apostle Paul has just finished telling Titus that he must look out for those who do not practice what they preach and encourages him to Hold Onto The Truth. In so doing, Titus and those he speaks to must also Hold Onto Jesus.
Now Paul implores Titus to stand apart from these false teachers and teach what is sound doctrine 'But as for you, teach what accords with sound doctrine.'. Titus must use what he knows about Christ, about how he should live, to live. Everything he does must be based on Scripture, everything must be tested to what Scripture says and he must not deviate from it - otherwise he will become like the false teachers - those very people he has just been advised about.
There is an element of that truth for us as well - we, as today's Christians must live according to what the Bible tells us, we must ensure that our lives are in accordance with sound doctrine - based on scripture, tested against scripture, so if we are compared, people would see that what we say is true and Christ is the Saviour.
To emphasise this, Paul goes on to give instructions to all groups of people within the church that Titus is working with. There are five groups of people mentioned who cover just about everyone: Older men; older women; young women; young men; and bondservants. Each group of people are to be taught how they should be living again with sound doctrine in mind in each case.
OLDER MEN
Older men are considered the senior part of the church, they should, by the very virtue of being older and more experienced with life, be wiser and more mature. These men should be taught to be 'sober-minded, dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness'. These men should not be influenced by alcohol (or in terms of today, perhaps this could refer to anything that could lead the man to becoming an addict of something!) and live a life that others respect. Those in the church should live a life where people look up to them, not because of position or power, but because of how they live their life, they should be wise in life. These men should also show restraint, self-control in everything they encounter. They must think carefully before jumping in, look at every possible angle before getting involved, etc. As older men, they would be expected to be sound in everything they put their mind to, not least the three cardinal Christian virtues of faith (trusting God), love (serving others) and in steadfastness (waiting patiently for the fulfillment of their Christian hope).
OLDER WOMEN
Older women are, likewise are to be taught three virtues, given them a specific position in the church and in the Christian Family. First they must be 'reverent in behaviour' - they should live a life that is openly sound, almost priestess-like. They should have a character that no-one can judge as being bad or wrong. As if to emphasise this, Paul mentions two negative behaviours, older women should stay clear of: being slanderers and slaves to much wine. If the older women are living a Godly life, then they should not be slanderers, for if they were to be slanderers, this would negate their Godly behaviour. In a similar way to the older men, they should not be influenced by to much wine. Today, this could be translated, I guess, to any addictions. This should be so as to be able to teach the younger women.
YOUNG WOMEN
This is the only group Titus does not need teach, as this job falls to the older women who will teach them how to love their husbands and children, be self-controlled, working at home, kind and submissive to their own husbands. This is a tall order in today's world, particularly with more and more women needing to get a job. Although this was not the case at the time the letter was written, I believe the Bible and the words within it are appropriate for any age. Young women should be just like their mothers - caring for the family, in which ever capacity that may be, whether at home working, or in a job working. Young women who work for a living should do so for the love of their family, irrespective of whether their husbands work or not. They should be open to the teachings of the older women.
YOUNG MEN
Young men should follow suit as the young women in that they must be self-controlled. This would be in every aspect of their lives. Although not as wise and experienced as the older men, young men should be self-controlled in things that could cause them to become addicts, being influenced by other people, specifically those of a non-Christian ethos and in the same way should be influenced by Christian brothers. They should be encouraged to continue in this way of life because the world's pleasures are strong, particularly pleasures like sex, alcohol, and young women - but young men must stay in control of their minds. To this end, they must have a suitable example and Paul states here that Titus must be that example.
Titus must live his life respectfully, he must live to do good works and his teaching must be truth and consistent and he must live what he preaches. All his speech, not just his sermons and teachings, must be sound, he must give nothing that could allow anyone who is not a Christian to slander or condemn him and have nothing evil to say about us.
BOND SERVANTS
Although not many of these around today, they could be linked with those who work under us in our work place (since most of us do not have servants in our homes!), however, whatever the identity, they should be submissive to their masters. That means do what their bosses want them to do without complaint or derision. This is probably a group that most of us fall into, particularly if we work for a manager. We should not fall into the trap of grumbling when decisions are made, we should not find ourselves talking behind the management's back and we must not steal from the workplace, however small it may seem, but in everything we do, we must do in good faith. We must live like we are supposed to do, like Christians, 'so that in everything they [anyone] may adorn the doctrine of God our Saviour'.
Christ died so that we may be saved. This is folly to the unbeliever. They think 'What is the point?', if there is any possibility of truth. They (non-believers) are always looking out for when we (believers) do or say things wrong. They want to put us in our places, want to point out our failures, want to prove that we are deluded to believe in a man who died 2000 years ago (if that story is true!).
Today, the false teaching is just as apparent as it was in Paul and Titus' time. People have slipped back into their natural ways, because it is easier rather than doing what Christ wants us to do. Living a life according to our own wills and wants is more pleasurable in the immediate term than to sacrifice the worldly pleasures for the sake of the Gospel and of Christ.
This is why it is extremely important to ensure that we encourage our brothers and sisters in Christ every day. We must meet regularly, pray together, read God's word to hear what he is saying to us regularly, we must encourage each other to talk, to share our weaknesses, our temptations and, yes, we must talk about our sin. Satan does not want us to talk about our sin because he wants us to ignore it, to allow it to slip through our lives until it is an integral part of it. However, as a Christian, we already know that sin is ALREADY an integral part of our lives. We are born to it. We cannot escape it. But we must not, according to Paul allow it govern our lives.
Christ died to pay the penalty of our sin. Once and for all to bring us back to God.
If he did that for us, why wouldn't we want to live that is sober-minded dignified, self-controlled, sound in faith, in love, and in steadfastness?